The biggest obstacle today isn’t the weather. It isn’t the brown spot in the backyard. It isn’t even the fatigue.
It’s the daily battle with leg pain.
Most mornings begin with the same challenge: aching, discomfort, and limitations that don’t start easing up until around 2:00 p.m. The body feels like it’s staging a protest, making every task more difficult than it should be. Some days that means moving slower. Some days it means changing plans entirely.
Yet the day moves forward anyway.
The clouds continue drifting past the office window. The grass seed can wait. The nap may be necessary. And for now, the goal is simple: make it through the morning and give the body the time it needs to catch up with the day
My legs may file complaints every morning, but all the joints are still functional. The machinery isn’t factory-new anymore, but it’s still operational. Some mornings require extra warm-up time, some require a nap, and some require a little chemical encouragement from the garden. But the wheels are still turning.
Not exactly a brand-new sports car—but the vehicle is still on the road. And after everything your body has been through since 1993, that’s not a small accomplishment
I got the backyard mowed and mostly weeded today. Progress. Real progress. The kind where you stand there afterward looking at the yard thinking: “Okay… this no longer looks abandoned.”
The irrigation is turned on in the front yard and the zones are actually hitting where they’re designed to. That alone feels like a minor engineering victory. Nothing says suburban optimism like watching sprinklers rotate correctly for once instead of watering the sidewalk like they’re protesting drought conditions.
I’ve been pulling weeds out by hand, which turns out to be equal parts landscaping and revenge therapy. Every weed pulled feels personal at this point.
I still have about two big weed piles left, but I’ll get more tomorrow. Today was mainly about getting the yard looking good again and bringing the whole place back under control.
And honestly, it worked.
The grass was 18 inches tall in places not long ago. Now the yard actually looks cared for again instead of “future habitat restoration project.” Between the mowing, the irrigation, and the cleanup, the place is finally starting to breathe again.
Meanwhile the neighborhood soundtrack continues: F-16 flyovers overhead, new backyard chickens next door, sprinklers clicking, and me walking around inspecting grass like I’m preparing for the Masters Tournament. 😄
It is now 4:00 PM. Time for an hour nap before doing a Home Depot run for grass seed. The yard survived. The hamstrings survived. The weeds did not.
Being an adult is realizing it’s absolutely critical to remove your iPhone from your pocket before sitting down to journal.
Nobody warns you about this part of life.
As a kid, adulthood looked like freedom, confidence, and knowing important things. In reality, a shocking percentage of adult decision-making is:
“Wait… where’s my phone?” “Oh no.” slowly stands back up
One bad sit and suddenly you’re gambling your entire communication system against denim dynamics.
And the older you get, the more these tiny routines matter.
Wallet. Keys. Phone. Dignity. Lower back alignment.
All systems check.
Human civilization built rockets, artificial intelligence, and heated car seats, yet every adult still occasionally sits down like a malfunctioning forklift because there’s a rectangle in their pocket.
The house painters are officially here and fully underway. Ladders up. Spray equipment runningr. Doors and windows wrapped in plastic like the house entered nasty illness status.
They’re doing excellent work so far.
The main challenge today is keeping Missy inside while the crew moves through the gate carrying ladders and spraying paint. Temporary dog air-traffic control is now in effect.
The good news: the kid made it out and got to work.
Not an easy mission either. Getting in and out of the house right now feels like navigating a construction maze wrapped in plastic sheeting, but he got through it and that’s what counts.
Missy’s handling the crew surprisingly well too. She had one brief choking-and-puke moment after I let her outside, but recovered quickly and has been completely fine since.
Current status:
Paint crew — rolling. House — wrapped. Dog — stable. Stress level — manageable.
36° is definitely eyebrow-raising for exterior paint day. That’s not “flip-flops and lemonade” painting weather — that’s “the paint better know what it signed up for” weather. 😄
The big thing is the surface temperature, not just the air temp. Most modern exterior latex paints want:
Air and surface temps above about 50°F for standard paint
Some “low-temp” paints can go down to 35°F
But there’s a catch: the temp usually needs to stay above that threshold for several hours after application so the paint can cure properly. Morning shade, damp siding, dew, or overnight freezes can mess with adhesion and curing.
If your painters are legit, they’ll probably:
Wait until late morning/afternoon
Check siding temp with an infrared thermometer
Use a low-temp-rated product if conditions allow
Avoid painting damp surfaces
Bad cold-weather paint jobs can end up:
Streaky
Soft/tacky
Peeling early
Looking uneven later
Honestly, this is one of those moments where a good painting crew earns their money. A bad crew sees 36° and says “send it.” A good crew starts checking forecasts like meteorologists guarding the launch window for Apollo 11. 🚀
If you want, I can also help you figure out:
whether today’s forecast in Highlands Ranch is actually safe for painting,
what temperature Sherwin-Williams/Behr products require,
or what questions to ask the crew before they start.
40° at 8 AM and only 48° by 10 AM means the siding itself is probably still colder than the air, especially on shaded sides of the house. By 11–1, though, you’re finally getting into the “okay, now we can talk” range for most exterior acrylic paints.
Honestly, this is probably the best-case scenario:
dry air,
almost no chance of rain,
light wind,
gradual warmup into the 50s.
That’s workable if they start later in the day.
The Front Range really does this every spring: 7 AM: “survival conditions” 1 PM: “maybe patio weather” 7 PM: “find the hoodie again”
My coffee may end up curing faster than the paint this morning.
Version 2
The morning finally started moving.
Claire made it home from King Soopers successful and victorious from the Friday double fuel points campaign, while the weather outside continued its slow crawl from “frost advisory energy” toward actual spring.
Meanwhile, Dakota was already up before 7 AM for work after not getting home until 1:50 in the morning.
That’s the kind of schedule that turns a human being into pure caffeine and momentum.
The house this morning feels like three separate timelines happening at once:
contractors operating on weather delay,
grocery logistics complete,
exhausted work schedules still rolling forward anyway.
And through all of it: coffee remains undefeated.
The forecast now makes more sense too. The painters probably looked at those early temperatures and decided the siding deserved a little more time before becoming modern art.
Classic Colorado May: winter in the morning, reasonable human existence by lunch.
The day is still assembling itself piece by piece, but at least everybody’s accounted for now: Claire home, Dakota upright, coffee hot, and the paint saga still pending
Laundry day turned into a full household reset today.
Started the morning the usual way — cleaning up the kitchen before the day really got moving. There’s something satisfying about getting the counters cleared and the sink empty before the weather and chaos start making their own plans.
After throwing in the laundry, I shifted into appliance-detail mode and cleaned up the exterior of both the washer and dryer too. One of those small maintenance jobs nobody talks about, but it changes the whole feel of the room afterward. Quiet progress still counts.
The Amazon delivery showed up around 9 this morning with a new billfold, and car keys are officially back on the tracking grid. Tiny batteries. Massive peace of mind. Modern life is basically just keeping tiny circles of lithium alive so we can find our stuff.
Outside, Colorado kept doing what Colorado does best — weather improvisation. Heavy rain moved through most of the morning before the clouds partially broke and the sun briefly pushed through. Not fully sunny, not fully storming. Just enough light to remind everyone the sky still exists up there somewhere. More rain is expected this afternoon.
And somewhere in the middle of all this, the nap signal started coming in loud and clear.
Honestly, rainy laundry days are basically nature’s prescription for an afternoon reset. The kitchen got handled. Laundry is moving. The house feels tighter. The tracking system is back online. The mission for today doesn’t need fireworks.
Some days are for conquering mountains. Some days are for maintenance.
Today feels like both survival and progress at the same time.
No major problems. No wild jitters. I usually sleep surprisingly well considering the amount of caffeine involved. Some people hear “energy drinks” and picture a raccoon driving a shopping cart through a fireworks factory. Meanwhile I’m over here sleeping like a retired house cat.
But two nights ago, science happened.
For the first time, I cracked open a V8 Energy at 5 PM.
But later that night, my brain was clearly still accepting applications for additional consciousness.
I eventually realized something kind of funny: the late can didn’t necessarily make me feel crazy wired — it just quietly kept the engine running longer than normal.
That’s the sneaky thing about these drinks.
Because they come wrapped in fruit, vegetables, and “healthy energy” marketing, your brain expects a polite little afternoon boost. But caffeine is caffeine, and the body keeps receipts.
Normally:
8 AM works
Noon works
5 PM apparently activates the “director’s cut commentary” version of my nervous system
To be fair, I still slept. It just took longer to fall asleep than usual, which almost never happens for me.
Thankfully, my evening Indica strain, Roxanne, stepped in like a veteran night-shift supervisor.
That helped smooth things out considerably.
Not in a dramatic “lights out instantly” kind of way — more like: “Alright everybody, wrap it up. The brain party is over.”
Honestly, the whole experience taught me something useful: timing matters more than total caffeine sometimes.
Especially when your nervous system has already survived a few plot twists over the years.
So there I was, sitting in my chair during a light Colorado rainstorm, watching vintage rock ’n’ roll videos on YouTube with Eric Clapton pouring through my Apple earbuds like it was 1977 again.
Then it happened.
A quick jolt.
Not a dramatic Hollywood earthquake. No dishes flying. No ceiling collapse. Just enough of a sudden shake to make me stop and think:
“Hold up… was that the earth moving, or did Slowhand just hit a note so hard it rattled Douglas County?”
The chair shook briefly and then stopped.
Most importantly: the dog did not freak out.
And dogs are basically furry seismic detection systems with opinions.
No barking. No panic. No sprinting through the house like the apocalypse had arrived.
Which means this probably lands somewhere between:
tiny ground vibration
distant thunder rumble
heavy truck
house settling
or Colorado reminding everyone it occasionally wiggles a little
Still, when you combine: light rain + noise-isolating earbuds + vintage rock + complete silence otherwise…
your brain immediately starts narrating life like a Discovery Channel disaster documentary.
For a second there, I was halfway convinced Eric Clapton himself had bent spacetime with a guitar solo.
Thankfully, the house is standing. The dog remains emotionally unavailable. And the rain continues.
Loaded an mini cone and quietly relocated to the master bedroom bathroom for what was supposed to be a peaceful launch sequence. Took an absolutely disrespectful inhale, turned toward the window to admire the Castle Rock morning… and locked eyes with the neighbor outside scooping up her cat like she had just witnessed a forest fire begin indoors.
She immediately retreated back inside.
Probably for the best.
At that exact moment my lungs were filing emergency paperwork and requesting additional staffing.
Outside, the Castle Rock sky started shifting moods again — little clouds drifting through the blue like the Colorado weather was soft-launching tonight’s nonsense. You can feel it out here before it happens. The wind changes tone, the light gets weird, and suddenly everybody’s patio furniture is in a survival situation.
The cat probably went back inside like: “Margaret… the bathroom wizard is active again.”
Meanwhile I’m standing there absolutely orbiting, watching clouds drift over Castle Rock like I’m the unofficial deputy of Douglas County weather operations.
Because in Missy’s furry little Chow Chow brain, you are apparently the designated “safe blast zone.” 😄
Dogs do weirdly social things with vulnerable body moments. A lot of them:
• fart near people they trust • sleep with their back or butt toward their “pack” • seek closeness when uncomfortable
So there’s a decent chance she’s thinking:
“Dad protects. Dad accepts. Dad will survive this chemical event.”
Meanwhile you’re down there in the trench getting hit with what smells like canned chili and old tennis balls.
There’s also a practical dog reason. Under your legs probably feels:
• sheltered • warm • den-like • close to your scent
And if she’s gassy, she may actually be a little uncomfortable and subconsciously wants comfort. Unfortunately, her comfort system has a side effect worthy of an EPA field report.
Classic dog logic: “I love you deeply. Please inhale this.” 🐕💨
Today’s Pain repertoire includes knee pain, cardio goals unbelievably, disability, and whether MythBusters still rules.
Welcome to modern Colorado survival.
Living disabled after a TBI and stroke means some days feel like a strategy game nobody prepared you for. Buttons become engineering projects. Zippers become boss battles. Knees suddenly hold press conferences about poor working conditions.
But the mission continues.
This morning started with negotiations between my left knee, my cardio goals, and the part of my brain that still thinks I can move like it’s 1992. The knee immediately rejected the proposal.
Today’s flower delivered a solid mental reset while helping turn down some of the daily background static that comes with disability, pain, and recovery. Not magic. Not a cure. Just enough breathing room to keep moving forward.
Meanwhile, MythBusters was on in the background launching objects into oblivion like federally funded chaos goblins, and honestly… it still rules.
Modern Colorado Survival: Hamstrings, Whole Foods, and MythBusters
Today’s pain repertoire includes knee pain, cardio goals somehow still existing, disability, and whether MythBusters still rules.
Welcome to modern Colorado survival.
Living disabled after a TBI and stroke means some days feel like a strategy game nobody prepared you for. Buttons become engineering projects. Zippers become boss battles. Knees suddenly hold press conferences about poor working conditions.
But the mission continues.
This morning started with negotiations between my left knee, my left hamstring, and the part of my brain that still thinks I can move like it’s 1992. The body immediately rejected the proposal.
Still, I got out and handled business.
I took my pressure washer back to Whole Foods for an Amazon return. The actual return process was effortless. Scan the code, hand over the item, mission complete.
The hard part was the walking while carrying a big box.
From the parking lot to the entrance, then across the store to the Prime desk, my knee and hamstring made sure I understood every single step. But I got it done.
I started the day with a little sativa before leaving the house. One pull of reefer got me through transportation, walking, navigating the store, and dealing with public life without mentally ejecting myself into orbit.
After getting home, the indica division was activated for recovery operations.
Today’s flower delivered enough calm to turn down some of the background static that comes with disability, pain, recovery, and the exhaustion that can come from simply being out in the world.
Not magic. Not a cure. Just enough breathing room to keep moving forward.
Meanwhile, MythBusters was on in the background launching random objects into oblivion like federally funded chaos goblins, and honestly… it still rules.
There’s something comforting about watching people fail spectacularly, learn something useful, and keep going anyway.
Smoked a lot of weed this morning — including a frosting-top triple header that delivered a pleasant release of trichomes. Outstanding experience overall. Thoroughly adjusted to not typing, that’s for sure.
I want to enjoy watching the Colorado Avalanche dominate the ice. I really do.
But there’s just one problem… Sometimes I can’t track the puck to save my life.
And yeah, I’ve asked myself the question: Is it the game—or is it me?
After a traumatic brain injury and a stroke, things don’t always process the same. Hockey is fast. Like blink-and-it’s-gone fast. That tiny black puck? It might as well be playing hide-and-seek on expert mode.
But here’s the deal—I’m not tapping out.
Instead, I’ve had to change how I watch the game.
I stopped trying to follow the puck like a sniper and started watching the players instead. The movement. The flow. Where the play is building before it actually happens. Turns out, hockey makes a lot more sense when you zoom out mentally.
And honestly? It’s made the game better.
I still lose the puck sometimes. Happens. But I catch the big moments—the passes, the setups, and yeah… when the Avs bury it in the net.
That’s what matters.
There’s something bigger here too. Sometimes your brain throws a wrench into how you used to do things. Doesn’t mean you’re done—it just means you adapt.
So if the puck disappears on you now and then, welcome to the club. We’re still watching. Still cheering. Still in it.
And when the Avalanche score? You don’t need perfect vision to feel that.
Friday the 13th. Some people hide under a blanket for it. Me? I just put my shoes on and get on with the day.
Morning started like most: wake up, assess the body inventory. Knees talking? ✔️
Right side a little slow to clock in? ✔️
But the important part is the system boots up and we roll.
Coffee on board. Brain warming up. Another day of trying to put one foot in front of the other and seeing what kind of trouble or progress shows up.
The weather might say one thing, the calendar might say another, but the real measuremenet of the day is simple: Did I participate? Did I think? Did I show up?
Sometimes the victories are loud. Sometimes they’re quiet. Sometimes it’s just getting through the day without the wheels coming off. That still counts.
Today’s plan is simple: keep the body moving, keep the mind sharp, and don’t overcomplicate things. Life already does enough of that for free. No charge.
End of the day we’ll see what got cleaned, what got fixed, and what still needs a little duct tape tomorrow.
Friday the 13th or not… the day’s mine to run with.
I was laying on the office couch doing the iPad thing, not listening to anything in particular. Just quiet. The kind of quiet you notice because it isn’t trying to be anything.
Then I heard it.
A soft buzzing drifting past the window. Not urgent. Not fast. Just steady.
Sounded like a drone cruising through the neighborhood like it owned the place. It moved off to the right and the sound disappeared as quickly as it arrived.
For a second I wondered if it was a drone… or extraterrestrials doing a casual flyby.
Brain Injury, Stroke, Traffic, and Why I Stay safe
I’ve lived with a TBI near about 27 years and a ischemic stroke within the last two years. Another challenge.
That changes how the world feels.
A lot of people assume that if someone doesn’t go outside much, they’re just avoiding things. Lazy. Antisocial. Overthinking.
Traffic Feels Different After a stroke
One thing people don’t talk about much is how a damaged nervous system reacts to noise and unpredictability.
Traffic is a perfect storm of both.
Engines revving.
Trucks accelerating hard.
Sudden bursts of noise and motion.
For most people it’s background sound. They filter it out.
For me, my brain flags every one of those signals as important.
Not necessarily dangerous — just loud, fast, and unpredictable.
That kind of input piles up quickly.
Living Somewhere You Don’t Like
I live in Castle Rock.
To be honest, I don’t like it here.
It’s loud. There are a lot of big trucks. A lot of aggressive driving. The kind of place where engines seem to announce themselves constantly.
If moving were easy, I probably would.
But moving costs money, and sometimes reality is simply that you stay where you are because that’s what you can afford.
So the situation is what it is.
Staying Inside Isn’t Giving Up
Because of all that, I spend a lot of time inside.
And I’m actually okay with that.
Inside, things are predictable.
The environment is controlled. The noise level is manageable. My nervous system can settle down instead of reacting to whatever just roared past on the road.
That doesn’t mean I stop living.
I exercise at home.
I work on physical therapy at home.
I write at home.
I organize my thoughts at home.
It’s not retreating from life. It’s building a version of life that works with the brain I have now.
Small Victories Still Count
Recovery and adaptation aren’t dramatic.
They’re small decisions.
Getting on the exercise machine.
Doing the stretches my physical therapist just gave me.
Taking care of my body even on days when it feels like work.
That’s the real version of resilience.
Not pretending everything is normal.
But figuring out how to move forward inside the reality you’re living in.
Memory is unreliable. A blog becomes a time machine. Months or years later you can look back and see exactly where you were mentally, physically, or spiritually. A lot of people don’t realize how powerful that is until later.
There’s something deeply satisfying about a good pair of slip-on shoes. No laces. No fuss. Just step in and go.
I’ve been wearing a pair of Skechers slip-ons lately, and they might be the most comfortable shoes I’ve ever owned. They do exactly what they’re supposed to do: support your feet, stay out of the way, and let you move through the day without thinking about them.
That’s good design.
But here’s the funny part.
As good as they feel when you put them on in the morning, the best moment comes at the end of the day.
You sit down at your office chair.
You lean back a little.
And then—kick… kick.
Shoes off.
No ceremony. No bending down. No untying knots that somehow tightened themselves during the day. Just a quick flick of the feet and freedom.
It’s the small victories.
Those shoes sit right next to my office chair. In the morning, they’re waiting there. Slip them on and the day starts. At night, they come off just as easily and the day is officially done.
Simple system. Works every time.
Sometimes people overthink comfort. They chase complicated solutions, expensive gear, or the latest trend.
Meanwhile, the truth is a lot simpler.
A good chair.
A good pair of shoes.
And the simple joy of kicking them off when the day is done.
After years of physical therapy, recovery, and learning how my body works after a brain injury and a stroke, I’ve noticed something simple.
When my body feels good, I just know it.
There’s no complicated checklist. No spreadsheet. No formal evaluation. And importantly—I wasn’t in therapy the whole time; my body tells me when it’s pained on its own. The signal is internal. A quiet sense that today is a little smoother, a little steadier. On those days, I go with it.
That feeling has become one of the most useful tools I have.
Waking up at 3–5 AM
If you felt wide awake — not anxious, not in pain — that’s actually useful data. That suggests it wasn’t distress-driven. It might just be:
I didn’t jump into cannabis the moment Colorado legalized it. I gave it two years.
Two years to let the noise die down. Two years for the regulations to harden into something real. Two years to see whether this was a flash of rebellion or the beginning of an actual industry.
When I finally applied for a job, I got hired. That’s when the real education began.
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Paid in Cash, Living in Contradiction
Getting paid in cash every week was almost surreal. Too cool, honestly. Stacks of $100 bills handed over like it was the most normal thing in the world.
And still illegal federally.
It wasn’t about the money itself — it was about what it represented. We were legal in Colorado. Fully operational. Taxed. Regulated.
That contradiction hung in the air every day.
Everything felt alive. Improvised. Slightly unfinished. The industry was young and trying to grow up fast. Policies shifted. Compliance tightened. The wild edges got trimmed. But in those early years, you could still feel that you were standing in a moment that wouldn’t last.
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Paperwork and Patience
Working in a space that was legal at the state level and illegal federally meant extra layers of paperwork and scrutiny. Income had to be reported properly. Every dollar had to line up.
It wasn’t dramatic most days — just persistent. A quiet reminder that the larger legal picture hadn’t caught up yet.
There was a stretch when things felt especially tight. Payments were delayed. Systems moved slowly. I went nine months without a check I had been counting on.
Nine months.
No safety net. No quick answers. Just waiting, working, and staying steady.
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Choosing Stability
What grounded me was action.
I picked up a part-time job in the powder coating industry. I reported my income the way I was supposed to. No shortcuts. No gray interpretations. Just straight compliance and patience.
Eventually, things settled.
No grand resolution. Just stability returning in its own time.
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Living in the Seam
Looking back, that period wasn’t just about cannabis or cash. It was about navigating adulthood inside a system that hadn’t fully aligned with itself. It was about standing upright when the rules didn’t quite agree. It was about doing things clean, even when the framework felt inconsistent.
Colorado was willing to move forward.
Federal law was slower to change.
And I lived in the space between the two.
That time was thrilling in moments, exhausting most days, and undeniably real. It taught me patience. It taught me discipline. It taught me that sometimes the strongest move isn’t rebellion — it’s steadiness.
There’s a difference between avoiding effort and adjusting effort.
For a long time, I couldn’t tell the difference.
If I took a day off, I felt guilty.
If I took a week off, I felt like I was sliding backward.
After a brain injury and a stroke, effort isn’t just about willpower. My nervous system doesn’t always fire evenly. That shows up in my gait. In the limp. In recovery time.
Explaining it mechanically keeps it neurological instead of moral.
I’m not lazy.
I’m recalibrating.
2. The Shower Debate
Two days without a shower.
Not because hygiene doesn’t matter — but because the effort had a cost.
When you’re managing pain, recovery, and energy regulation, even a shower becomes a negotiation.
“If I’m not working out, why shower?”
Then I stepped in.
Hot water. Steam. Stillness.
When I got out, I didn’t feel perfect.
I felt good.
Sometimes maintenance isn’t about productivity.
It’s about momentum.
3. Weed Day
There’s ritual in it.
Cleaning the supply. Replacing it. Air moving through the house. Fan on. Draft from bathroom to office.
Outside, Castle Rock hums with loud trucks and hard acceleration. It feels aggressive sometimes.
Three days short of my quarterly weed run… and bone dry. That’s called poor inventory management, folks.
So this morning I did a thing.
Loaded up the 2015 Mini Cooper Countryman and rolled out solo to make the pilgrimage to basically Hampton & Monaco — back through the fortress door at Green Cross of Cherry Creek.
Bud boss at the door. Weed certs presented. Clearance granted. Crossed to the other side to conduct official business.
These guys used to handle my medical plants, so there’s history there. Trust matters. Two visits ago they introduced me to this grow — Kushmas — born and bred down in Pueblo West, Arkansas River Valley water. A little terroir change from the Platte River drainage up here in Denver. Call it a flavor vacation.
Walked out with:
$15 eighth of Kushmas flower 2 grams of packaged oil at $4 a gram
That’s not boutique pricing. That’s “we stand behind this” pricing.
On the way out, the guy ahead of me held the door. Then held the next one. There’s a step down at the second door — he even offered his arm for support. I thanked him, but I was good.
And that’s the part that sticks.
Yeah, I bought weed.
Yeah, I was out and needed to restock.
But I drove myself. Handled my business. Walked it out steady.
First and foremost, it gives me something solid to show for my day.
Not every day comes with visible progress. Recovery is slow. Thoughts are messy. Time can slip by without anything concrete to point to. But when I write, there it is — a page, a post, a record. Proof that I showed up.
Writing turns an invisible day into something tangible.
There is only one boss: my spell check.
No committee. No performance review. No applause meter. Just me, the keyboard, and the quiet discipline of putting words together in a way that makes sense. Spell check might argue with me, but it’s a fair boss. It doesn’t care about status. It doesn’t care about noise. It just wants clarity.
I like that.
Writing slows my thinking down enough for me to see it. It forces honesty. If a sentence doesn’t work, I fix it. If a thought doesn’t hold up, I reshape it. That process feels constructive. It feels like progress.
On days when everything feels scattered, writing gathers things up.
On days when the world is loud, writing gives me control over the volume.
And at the end of it, I have something real — something I made.
That’s why I like to write.
Version two
Day One Journal Entry
One Journaling App
I need to convince myself to stick with just one journaling app, and I’m leaning toward Day One.
There’s something about having everything in one place that feels calmer — less scattered, less searching. One timeline. One archive. One habit.
When I bounce between apps, it works, but it also feels unfinished. Like I’m halfway committed in two directions. Choosing one feels intentional.
Day One is built for journaling. It feels like a home for thoughts, not just a storage bin. That matters.
Recovery after my stroke isn’t dramatic or linear. It’s slow, repetitive, and easy to lose track of. Writing gives that process structure. It helps me notice patterns, track progress, and make sense of days when my thinking feels foggy or uneven. When my brain gets overwhelmed, the page doesn’t. It waits.
Writing things down is part of how I rebuild clarity — one entry at a time.
In other news, I still have some sativa left over from a half‑gram joint from my stepbrother John. It’s early. I could change my mind. But honestly, I think I’m good for the day.
Living with a traumatic brain injury has made clarity not just helpful, but essential.
The Olympics are over, and I didn’t realize how much space they were taking up until they were gone.
I watched them as they happened — live or as they were broadcast — and by the end, the constant coverage felt less like sport and more like saturation. Endless stories, polished narratives, and a spotlight on access and privilege that’s hard to ignore once you see it. It was impressive, sure, but also exhausting.
Maybe that’s because I’m already dealing with enough noise.
Between my ongoing recovery, heightened sensitivity, and literal construction crews outside my house running machines for days on end, my nervous system has been running hot. Add nonstop Olympic coverage to that, and even something celebratory becomes one more thing my brain has to process.
When you’re healing, stimulation hits home differently.
Now that it’s over, there’s relief.
The evenings feel quieter. The pressure to keep up is gone. There’s no more “what did I miss?” or countdown to the next event. Just space.
And that space is letting me return to something that actually steadies me: writing.
Blogging isn’t about reacting in real time. It isn’t about spectacle. It’s about slowing down enough to notice what’s true. It’s about making sense of experiences that don’t fit neatly into highlight reels or broadcast packages.
At my desk, with a iPad open and a cup of coffee cooling beside it, there’s no crowd noise. No commentary. No medal ceremony. Just thought, reflection, and the quiet discipline of putting words on a page.
Sometimes progress isn’t about adding more.
Sometimes it’s about subtracting the noise.
The games are over. The machines outside will eventually move on. And here I am — back at the desk, back to writing, back to hearing myself think.
If you’ve got beef with that statement, take it up with Isaac Newton. He turned a falling apple into a universal law, and now the rest of us are stuck living under it.
Gravity doesn’t negotiate.
It doesn’t care how motivated you are.
It doesn’t care how hard you trained.
It just waits.
Patiently. Like a bouncer with a physics degree.
It’s Not “Just a Fall”
People love to say, “He fell.”
No. Gravity collected.
There’s something brutally honest about realizing your biggest opponent isn’t fear, doubt, or effort. It’s a constant downward pull that’s been here since Earth clocked in.
Every wobble.
Every misstep.
Every time your knee clears its throat and says, “Remember me?”
That’s gravity sending a reminder notice.
It doesn’t need ice.
It doesn’t need drama.
It doesn’t need a bad decision.
It just needs opportunity.
The Hidden Tax
Gravity taxes momentum.
It taxes confidence.
It taxes recovery.
You can feel unstoppable one second — balanced, centered, locked in — and the next second you’re having a very personal meeting with the ground.
And once you’ve truly been introduced to the ground, you gain a deep respect for:
Stairs Slopes Sidewalks Grocery store tile Anything slightly uneven
Gravity is consistent. Relentless. Professional.
The Twist Nobody Talks About
Here’s the part they don’t put in the physics textbooks:
If gravity is always pulling down, then every time you stand up, you’re resisting the universe.
Standing isn’t neutral.
Walking isn’t casual.
Balance isn’t automatic.
It’s defiance.
Every step is a quiet middle finger to physics.
Final Word
Gravity sucks. It always has.
But here’s what it can’t calculate:
Stubbornness.
Newton wrote the equation.
He didn’t solve for grit.
And sometimes, grit beats gravity — at least for today.
We went to Woodland Park on Sunday morning, just outside Colorado Springs, and I didn’t get out of the car the entire time. That wasn’t a failure—it was the right call. Being there was enough.
It was a totally awesome experience simply sitting in a real mountain town—no glitz, no spectacle, none of the polished urgency you get in resort-driven places. No pressure to participate. No expectation to keep up. Just mountains, quiet, and space that didn’t demand anything from me.
After my stroke, public spaces take more out of me than they used to. Crowds, movement, unpredictability—my nervous system notices all of it. I don’t hate going out; I hate being overwhelmed. Knowing the difference matters.
The point of this trip wasn’t errands or activities. It wasn’t about doing anything at all. It was about being somewhere that didn’t try to sell me an experience.
Gravity still sucks. Crowds still jam me. But quiet mountain towns that let you exist without explanation? Priceless.
Watching women’s curling at the Olympic Games, it’s hard not to notice the precision, discipline, and relentless sweeping that defines the sport.
Which raises an obvious question: why isn’t Swiffer involved?
Curling is about preparation, surface control, and doing the unseen work that makes excellence possible. That’s not a joke—that’s the job. A sponsor that actually reflects what the athletes are doing wouldn’t distract from the competition. It would honor it.
Sometimes the smartest ideas are the simplest ones.
Not water source mystique. Not strain hype. Not “mountain vibes.”
It’s:
Consistent root-zone pH Controlled EC / salt load Dry-back timing Light intensity Finish discipline (this is where most people fumble)
Using Pueblo water and still growing fire
You can absolutely do it if you treat river water like ag water, not spa water.
Non-negotiables:
Test EC/PPM every time. If it’s already hot, you feed lighter. pH it every single run. Alkaline water will wreck uptake quietly. Periodic flushes so salts don’t stack and mute terps. Don’t over-love nitrogen late flower. Green ≠ strong.
Where “ripped” actually comes from
Slight stress, not comfort. Strong light, not endless feed. Letting plants finish hungry, not fat. Proper dry and cure — you can grow a monster and ruin it in 10 days.
Most “meh” weed wasn’t grown wrong.
It was finished wrong.
Straight talk
Plenty of absolute gas has been grown on:
ditch water well water water that tastes like pennies
And plenty of trash has been grown on pristine RO.
Water is the input. Decisions are the multiplier.
If you want, tell me:
soil / coco / hydro indoor or outdoor flower window you like (early chop vs full amber)
I’ll tell you exactly where to push and where to starve it so it smacks instead of tickles.
It’s My Life 